Cracking discussion and response, I must say. Thank you indeed. Liberalism
is indeed unable to remain unreservedly committed to its principles.
You make several good points but ultimately the issue comes down to what you see as ‘forced participation in symbolism’ and what ought to be a settled matter: the full and unreserved support for individual’s sexual rights and freedoms. And the refusal to support that isn’t a personal preference to which one is entitled anymore than one is entitled to express antipathy towards, say, antisemitism or anti racism.
Some matters are so profoundly settled in a modern democracy that refusal to support them inevitably carries the label of bigotry. And hiding behind religion doesn’t make than any less evident. On the contrary.