It looks to me that our players aren't good enough to play in the way we're trying to. When you watch a lot of Premier League games as most of us do, they play out from the back seamlessly ( most of the time ), with movement, sure touch, close control, all at pace, usually ending in promising situations. And thats the teams in the bottom three as well. They protect the ball well, often leading to fouls as the only way to break up the attack. When we try to do this, 9 times out of 10 we either run into trouble, pass the ball to them, or miss control it. This does make watching very frustrating and yes, boring. But, this is how modern coaches insist on trying to play these days. What's the alternative ? It's obviously going long, and it still works if used sparingly, even in the Premier League. Defenders make mistakes, and you're only losing the ball deep in their half as opposed to the dangerous areas where we invariably lose it.
As an aside, we lose the ball from almost every throw in we take.